Love Long Distance

Despite the unusual few weeks leading up to this past weekend I had an exceptionally nice two days – which was welcome after a rough week.

Typical for this time of year, schedules must be juggled. Sometimes we must reschedule my “Grand Dates” (regularly scheduled time where my grand kids – all long distances away – bring me up to speed with the previous week). For the past two, maybe three weeks everyone I usually talk with at least every other week was unavailable to Skype, Duo, talk or text.

With the days getting longer and warmer I sorely missed our times together. I stayed busy with our gang, the pups, the pastures and the gardens. Still, I wondered how my grands fared without my input, encouragement and advice – or if they even missed visiting with me. I prayed long into the SansGrands silence.

On Saturday Izzy and I rescued our patio tomato plants from curling leaves, moving them to The Garden. Knowing the move wasn’t ideal timing, we assured our precious nearly orange tomato-lings to hang in there, they’ll feel far better despite the shock of moving.

Okay, so maybe my empathy wasn’t as much for our tomatoes. The day’s gardening finished, I returned to where I’d left off in my Bible:

“Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?” Romans 8:35 (NIV)

The relationships I share with these amazing young humans are strong and endure occasional separations – no matter how they may feel sometimes. Still, I consider how anxious I get when my time with God gets shoved down the priority ladder. I’m a grown up (mostly) and yet I feel the burn every time my prayer time is rescheduled – or dropped.

After praying again, God’s assurance that the grands shall continue feeling the love comforted me.

I was no sooner into other chores when my phone rang. A couple of hours later two sisters and I caught up with one another. Then FirstBorn called. While waiting in a backed-up toll booth line he realized how long it had been since our last talk. We mostly prattled and reminisced some as he drove from Wadsworth to Milwaukee. By my bedtime I felt far better connected than I had in weeks.

On Sunday SecondSon’s Firstborn called. He reiterated every exciting detail of the last two ball games – that sent his team to state. And his sister, FiveYearOld, could hardly wait to describe a new growing thing she discovered in astoundingly accurate detail.

Maybe it’s just me – the ways God uses the garden and my family to bless me is amazing. Though I could hardly wait between their calls, He assures me it’s all gonna be just fine.

“And now, dear children, continue in him, so that when he appears we may be confident and unashamed before him at his coming.”

1 John 2:28 (NIV)




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13 responses to “Love Long Distance

  1. I’ve been without internet service for nearly a week — right now I’m clinging to a precious hour at the public library (our modem is supposed to arrive on Saturday, *fingerscrossed*) – and I had to check up on Roo.
    I don’t doubt your grands think of you and will for much longer than you realize. Right now in my new location (one day I’ll write of it!) I can tell you this — when I first walked into the garage it struck me, “it smells like Grandpa’s work area!”, and later when I saw the shelves in the basement, “it’s just like Grandma’s!”
    They are in my heart and mind often, as you are in your grand’s. I have no doubt of it. ❤


    • Christi, again I marvel at how we think so similarly in so many different ways but have never I met. Yet. I hope the move is goong smoothly. I did the library internet connection the first months after I arrived here. Now I go occasionally in case I happen upon one of my bookworm buddies with a few minutes to spare. It happens. You’re in my prayers. ❤

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  2. Grandees, bloggers, most people get more busy outdoors in summer … haven’t you noticed the drop in both publishing and reading once that weather improves? They all love you dearly I’m sure … give them the space to grow and they will always return to those who love them …


  3. Lovely that you had a good catch up with your family. If visiting isn’t possible, a phone call is the next best thing. I hope your tomatoes are feeling better.

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  4. Wow. You have tomatoes already? We just have blossoms. Happy gardening! God bless!

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  5. Love your days, Roos. My wonderful children still call me at least once a week from DC and Japan. We spend at least an hour–even the boy! Those are good times.

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    • It’s not my favorite part of family life, but I bless God it’s a good part. I’m very glad for you, Jacqui, but honestly wouldn’t expect less, ❤


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